Gratitude in 3 Steps

Gratitude is defined by Oxford Dictionaries as "the quality of being thankful; readiness to show appreciation for and to return kindness."

I was struck by this definition. If you had asked me to write my own definition it would have spoken only to thankfulness.

But, wow — the readiness to show appreciation.

And to return kindness.

"If you are really thankful, what do you do? You share," said W. Clement Stone, a successful business leader, motivational writer and speaker, and philanthropist who saw in his heart to donate more than $275 million of his personal wealth.

It truly speaks to the heart of our work in fundraising — allowing philanthropists, large and small, to experience the joy of giving.

And showing appreciation — in big and small ways. The easiest, of course, is to just say thank you. An email is nice. A personal note is even more meaningful.

Returning kindness — yes, this can be to whomever you are grateful. But I also see this in a larger sense; our responsibility (I believe) is to give back, to help others.

I now view gratitude as a three-step process:

1. Being thankful
2. Showing appreciation
3. Returning kindness

So, at this season of Thanksgiving, I have a wonderful sense of gratitude. I am thankful to so many: friends, family, our team, clients and you — the readers of Bedrocks & Beacons. Thank you for reading, providing feedback and sharing. It is an honor to connect with you.

Have a happy Thanksgiving filled with gratitude!