Is Second Place the First Loser?

How many of you are active as volunteers? Do you give your time, talent and treasure to help organizations? How many of you provide free consulting advice or mentor others who need a hand up or handout?

Most of us wake up on Monday morning ready to do another week's battle in the trenches to make mankind a better place. It is important that we practice what we preach, and if we get paid to serve, we should also volunteer to serve. I also know it is easier to volunteer for something where you have interest or a passion. Have you checked your volunteer meter lately?

I volunteer for several organizations each year. I also find myself overextended at times but cannot say no to causes. One particular interest of mine is coaching boy's baseball. I have coached for several decades in several states, volunteering as manager, coach, associate coach, assistant coach, stat coach, etc. I have coached boys from ages 5 to 19. It has put me in many situations with parents, staff, players, officials and fans. My overwhelming memory of my volunteerism is very positive. That said, recently I was involved in a negative memory.

The eight-old-year baseball team I currently help coach played in a baseball tournament that was double elimination in scope. That means your team stays in the tournament until you lose twice. When all of the other teams lose twice and you have either not lost or lost only once, you win the tournament. We played in a Saturday and Sunday tournament. On Saturday, the team played three games and won all three. On Sunday, the team won a game, lost a game and then lost the final game (7-6) in the bottom of the last inning. Thus, the team finished runner-up in the tournament.